Making Connections: Early Adopters, Generosity & Loose Transactions
I hope you enjoy this post. I’m exploring some ideas on innovation, generosity and transactional friction vs transactional freedom.
I was on a phone call doing some pre-event networking for #sobcon in Portland. Liz Strauss said I should talk to Lara Feltin of Biznik.com. A perfect example of a generous act. Lara and I had no clue why we should be talking. that was Lara’s and my challenge. Liz just had a hunch it would be highly valuable. Liz was right! She often is.
Lara and I got talking about early adopters and creating a generosity culture. Then I made the connection:
- Early adopters are more generous.
- Generous people are more adoptive/adaptive.
Generous people are more willing to accept new ideas and concepts. They live in a flexible space of give and take. They don’t have hard boundaries to their possessions or their ideas. They are willing to invest for no reward because they have learned doing so brings bigger rewards.
It’s like the difference between continuous and discontinuous innovation. Making a continuous connection gives you slight gains. By way of contrast, discontinuous connections bring you potentially huge leaps. they don’t always payoff – there is risk. They work better when two like minded people connect.
Early adopters are generous:
- They are giving of their time and attention
- They are trusting of a founders vision – giving the benefit of the doubt
- They are forgiving of flaws and deficiencies
- They are willing to share their network and connect their friends and associates
- They seek value not clarity
- They are generous to believe the details will be filled in over time
What the two have in common is a loose transaction. The idea of loose and tight transactions began to emerge and align well with my initial observation. We’ve all heard Gladwell talk of the value of loose connections. The idea of loose transactions seems worth exploring.
Tight transaction need everything to be in place:
- People need to see value and clarity up front
- They want proof of ability to pay
- The transaction is complete almost like a checkpoint Charlie handover
- There is no trust!
- There is no tolerance of the unknown
- There is little flexibility
Loose transactions require no immediate resolution to all the details. These are the details that normally prevent things from happening. You need to be generous, to be an early adopter to be comfortable in a loose transaction. Both parties need to be willing to operate within a loose, generous framework.
People let go of the detail, when they trust the rewards will come.
Are you a loose transactor? Do you see the connection between generosity and early adoption?
This makes a lot of sense to me. How about you?
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Nick @NickKellet Great Article, Enjoy Your Weekend! x
@maxOz Thanks!
Absolutely! Great post! I'd be curious also to learn what the Myers Brigg is for most early adopters, to see if there is a common thread that goes deeper into the science of personality. I once asked a wide variety of my connections within SoMe what their Myers Briggs were and many were ENFP or ENTP, while designers I asked were more likely to be INTJ. Speaking of early adopting, am I the only one here still using G+?
@michelejmartin Great question on Myers Briggs. You might also like this post http://www.nickkellet.com/2012/01/what-do-you-connect-naturally-people-ideas-or-risks/
On a similar vein of categorizing people.
@nickkellet I so want to read it and my eyes are crossing in front of me. I promise I will read it tomorrow, first thing after I finish my deadline. :)BTW, have you read The Reputation Society: How Online Opinions are Reshaping the Offline World? Check it out if you haven't. I really like it.
Nice article. I never realised I was a loose transactor, but that's been my MO from the get go. The wins have always far outweighed the fails. Perhaps the greatest reward is having the opportunity to be involved in really exciting projects tight transactors simply don't have the appetite for.
@MacDavo You totally fit the billing. Our dialog is total proof of that. Were just beginning the big push to go live! So you'll be on the top of my list in the morning all being well:)
@nickkellet Thanks Nick. Even if nothing else, I feel as though I've made a great connection; thanks in no small part to #toolschat. If that doesn't demonstrate the power of social media and actual engagement, I don't know what does.
Brilliant! You summed it up perfectly. Early adopters are collaborators. True collaboration requires a generous spirit. Generosity is tied to karmic rewards. (And the rewards are so sweet!) Great post, Nick.
@larafeltin Thanks. It's funny how one conversation can lead to something bigger. Did you see the comment below. You should meet my friend @CASUDI
@NickKellet RT, done! #toolschat
YES,YES,YES. And BTW only last week someone I know and who knows Lara Feltin said I should connect wit her for sure at #SOBcon. Coincidence?
@CASUDI Nice! I just followed you on Twitter and look forward to connecting next month. Be sure to find me at SOBCon if we don't cross paths organically.
@larafeltin This is great and BTW I have made some of the very best online connections in comments!
@nickkellet Cheers ~ YOU are the best!
@CASUDI @larafeltin That is so true. That is community forming at it's finest. When the content just breaks the ice and real human connections form between two or more people who weren't part of the initial content and who weren't previously connected. Metcalfe's Law in action
@CASUDI Small world. I'm so looking forward to #socbon! Lara's in Seattle. So you two are close by!
This makes a lot of sense to me. I am a loose transactor/early adopter and interact with many. I see the traits you mentioned.
@SteveCassady Thanks. You totally fit the bill!